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Today I have cause to celebrate. For many reasons. You might want to sit down for this one. It might scare the bejezzuz outta few of you... while others who’ve known the story will rejoice with me.

But let’s preface with this information first: In numerology, 9 represents the beginning and the end of all human experiences. 9 also attracts money and fortune.

OK so keep this in mind as you read the below post.

Today is officially the 9th anniversary that I have worked for this company. I was hired to start on this day back on the 9th month 2000... making this my 9th anniversary. I started as a contractor but was hired on full-time March 2002. Since then – they (as in the Director of Finance, his managers & the then HR Manager ) have told me I am worthless because I don’t have a university degree, I ought to look for a job outside the four walls of this company, accept a pay-cut because of my 'lack of education' - making my life a living hell, often leaving me frustrated and in tears... also ending up on medical leave two years ago. Like a bad abusive relationship – I stayed because I thought I had no other option and my self-esteem & value has been at an all time low.

And on this day, the 9th anniversary, I have officially been fired.

LOL!!! I love it! I have never been more excited... of course realistically – I have some trepidation. I am taking a big risk... but one that is worth taking. I am done with that place once and for all. My father hurt himself during the renovations. It’s made him immobile and although back on his feet, I still have to be around for a while to make sure things get done. Apparently – I have used up all my Personal Emergency Leave time allotted under the Employment Equity Act... and was ordered to report to work ... or else.

"Or else, you will face termination."

Yeah. OK.

I am not being defiant. I am not quitting. I am simply not in a position to report back to work tomorrow as their ultimatum dictated. And as a result... I am being fired. And I’m not fighting it... yet. Of course – unless they try to screw me over in their severance pay... which I can tell by their wording they are attempting to put words in my mouth to use against me – so they don’t have to pay me severance. But I know my rights... and I’m not about to shoot myself in the foot.

So today – officially – I have been denied all access to the buildings. They told me they will pack my stuff for me... and I will report to security to hand in my badge and collect my plants and belongings. I won’t be shedding a tear. They’ve been waiting for an opportunity to do this and now they have it. They now no longer have to worry about having someone on their staff who doesn’t have a university degree and apparently nothing to offer.

But the world doesn’t share their views.

My trip to Vancouver – interview – went very well. I am expecting an offer any day. They are really excited about what I bring to the table. In fact, they indicated that I have skills that span across many areas that they have a need for and now must determine which area they feel I would be best suited for.

I’m now having to exercise a lot of patience and faith that destiny is calling and the wheels of fortune are in full play mode. It’s a big risk I am taking – to take this route, not having an offer on my house (yet while away, we did get a viewing although they preferred a different house) nor an official offer yet from this company. The pit of my stomach says I will be OK. Be patient and have faith. But this is big. But I’m OK. And I know without a doubt... I will be OK. Just have to have faith. Lots of it. And not get into panic mode because that is when I make mistakes. I can’t afford to make mistakes right now.

I didn’t quit – they quit me. And I’m very OK with that... I'm ready to surround myself with those who see my value as I do. And to grow rather than be chopped at the knees.

So nothing is stopping me now from pursuing my dreams full force without interruptions. Nothing is going to stop me from taking care of my family first. Not anymore.
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself." ~ Harvey Fierstein
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Comments (9)
Ruby
Ruby
Bangkok, Thailand
Date: Saturday, 6-Sep-2008 19:24 (GMT)1220754277,cdate-gmt:33324-comment 
I'm sorry I missed this. I'm glad though that you are really being positive about this. The change seems to be doing good to you. Keep us updated.
"I say, when life gives you a lemon, wing it right back and add some lemons of your own!" -Calvin and Hobbes
Mere
Mere
Richmond, VA, USA
Date: Saturday, 6-Sep-2008 17:45 (GMT)1220748333,cdate-gmt:33312-comment 
Everything happens for a reason. Being kicked in the ass isn't always what we want but sometimes it is what we need. Good riddance to the job and the Xbosses. (May they soon realize what a mistake it was to shove you out the door!)

xo
Magui
Magui
Uruguay
Date: Saturday, 6-Sep-2008 10:58 (GMT)1220723888,cdate-gmt:33263-comment 
wow. Any update?
daisy
daisy
San Francisco, CA, USA
Date: Thursday, 4-Sep-2008 00:58 (GMT)1220515132,cdate-gmt:32968-comment 
Holy Crap! I did need to do a bit of catch up, even if I read them in the wrong order. The universe works in mysterious ways, my dear.
If we're searching for peace, why do we still believe in hatred as the catalyst? ~ David Gray
snomuse
snomuse
VT, USA
Date: Wednesday, 3-Sep-2008 14:24 (GMT)1220477074,cdate-gmt:32883-comment 
NICE!
We are called to be architects of the future, not it's victims. - Bucky Fuller
Wilford
Wilford
Palo Alto, CA, USA
Date: Wednesday, 3-Sep-2008 08:31 (GMT)1220455873,cdate-gmt:32857-comment 
I'm glad that chapter is behind you. Nobody gets to abuse the KC. And reading your confidence is the perfect way to start my day. Thank you for your strength!
We can hide from infinity, but it will always be part of that with which we attempt to replace it.
Mbiz
Mbiz
United Kingdom
Date: Wednesday, 3-Sep-2008 02:27 (GMT)1220434051,cdate-gmt:32833-comment 
Very Inspiring! [Edit: what I mean is YOU are an inspiration.] I think you are on to something. :)

Btw, I *reeeeally* needed to read this today. Thank you, KC!
Let Love Be Your Energy
Becca
Becca
Muskegon, MI, USA
Date: Tuesday, 2-Sep-2008 21:22 (GMT)1220415729,cdate-gmt:32825-comment 
Absolutely amazing. This is a gift to you. Enjoy.
You must be the change you wish to see in the world- Mahatma Gandhi
Malechai
Malechai
Spring Lake, MI, USA
Date: Tuesday, 2-Sep-2008 20:31 (GMT)1220412709,cdate-gmt:32824-comment 
Unbelievable. I'm so glad that you are ok with the situation, as you should be. I'm not one to instigate litigation, but...well, you know.